Christian Family Services Ministry

8-30-2022 – A Word to the Wise – LET’S CONSIDER ABANDOMENT

Abandonment may begin as early as the womb. If the mother attempts or has a deep desire to murder the unborn child. If the child is given up for adoption, or if there is divorce or desertion by either birth parent. Abuse or neglect also by either parent always introduces the feelings as well. It may occur at any age however it is most intense in early age.

Abandonment is to be distinguished from rejection. The latter will be addressed later.

This situation is a disturbing painful sensation and brings on a very strong intense emotional reaction which begins immediately and continues throughout life. When the reaction is first experienced three things occur.

First the child experiences a wild uncontrolled sensation. It is a tremendous shock to the whole system. From that moment on the experience is relived over and over again.

When it is first felt the child has another experience in the spirit. The spirit of the living God offers consolation. On the other hand, the Satan tells the child a lie. The lie leads to a decision by the child to respond in a specific manner every time it is felt.

Obviously, I am using non-technical language to describe what goes on and how it is handled by the child. However, some examples of reactions may be learning disorders, communication disorders, pervasive development disorders, attention-deficit disorders, elimination disorders and many other problems. With me it is learning disorder, and attention- deficit problems.

So, what is the lie? It may be several things. Worthlessness will often be part of the experience. The child will mount a defense. The younger the child the more intense the reaction throughout life.

The reaction typically being observed by others will appear unusual, odd, and misunderstood. The child themselves rarely recognizes the root problem and does not know how to resolve it. The lie is powerful and its effect intense.

TO BE CONTINUED