Christian Family Services Ministry

3-3-2017 – A Word to the Wise: What if problems develop? Perhaps a mismatch occurs. Maybe a fit does not happen. The situation can be corrected, even late in marriage, as long as no one else has been brought into the relationship. But I assure you that if two people spend that first year putting their mate first— sacrificing, discovering, and providing, there will not be another person who can seriously challenge that marriage. Who would you suppose is the best person to instruct in sexual matters if not the newly married couple?? Some men and a few women would suggest a prostitute might be a good candidate, someone well experienced in the sexual appetite and how it is to be satisfied. There was a program filmed a few months ago where a mother concerned about her son’s future, took him to a house of prostitution when he was fifteen to learn about sex. Is this the best solution? Or perhaps someone trained like the courtesans of Oriental background. They possess superior knowledge, or do they? I would submit that the most naive virgin possesses more pure knowledge of such things than any of these. As startling as it may seem, those who misuse and abuse sex have no real knowledge of it. Since sex was by the Lord and not by Satan, true understanding must flow from the source. Certain things are known about God and may be trusted. One of the most trustworthy is that God does not reveal his truths to the evil one, nor in the hands of the evil one will one discover the paths of life. One must seek knowledge of sex from its Creator, not its perverter. God is the source of all knowledge. I do not think for a moment that He would trust such knowledge to such wickedness. The Lord God gives important knowledge to the person in marriage who needs and desires such wisdom.