Christian Family Services Ministry

2-28-2017 – A Word to the Wise: The man makes himself very vulnerable to the woman he has sex with. Her knowledge of him has the potential to destroy him, if misused. By engaging in multiple relationships, the man hopes to weaken his fear and dilute the strength of the woman’s power over him. The woman, on the other hand, must have security if she is to allow this kind of penetration into her being. I suspect many at this point would say: “Nonsense. Sexual relations prior to marriage, or even the number of sex partners does not affect the marriage. Comparisons are used to show how different relationships make a better lover.” However, I would challenge you to think: If there is nothing to compare the sex act with other than one’s experience with one’s mate, then there are no competing or conflicting difficulties introduced into the relationship. If that experience is one of joy, then there is no desire for someone else.